Dan, Ace, Me and Arun @Guapo’s in Bethesda, Maryland
Carry each other’s burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ.
Galatians 6:2
Day 45: Carry Each Other
Every few days I wish I could talk with my friend Kishore. He passed away a few months ago. His friendship was profound. He had this kind of impact on many others. In fact, his brother, two of his best friends and I met together last night on his birthday to remember him and encourage one another.
When we are hurting it is easy to want to hide. When we are discouraged we often want to retreat away from everyone and “lick our wounds.” But we need each other. And often when sharing what we are going through with someone else we find that they may see things we can’t see because they may have gone through similar experiences. And after sharing we often feel our burden is lighter.
Today, I will seek ways of lightening others loads and allowing others to lighten mine.
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Give, and it will be given to you. A good measure, pressed down, shaken together and running over, will be poured into your lap. For with the measure you use, it will be measured to you.”
Luke 6:38
Have you ever watched success videos that teach you the secrets to becoming part of the 1 %? There are people who are able to make lots of money and even create wealth that generates more wealth. They are a small part of the population. When looking for motivation one factor may be the idea of making lots of money.
I’d like to talk to the 99%. If there is a king there is only one king and the rest of the people need to find a way to live that makes them happy and healthy without being the ultimate person in charge of the kingdom.
I really love the example of the Son of God. He humbled Himself to better serve and love others. We all can do that. (And He actually is the King of Kings!). We all can make choices to make ourselves more helpful to our family and community. In so doing we will find happiness, health, and purpose. While we must make sure to live a balanced life we can rest assured that when we allow ourselves to be a blessing to others we ourselves are blessed.
22 They came to Bethsaida, and some people brought a blind man and begged Jesus to touch him.23 He took the blind man by the hand and led him outside the village. When he had spit on the man’s eyes and put his hands on him, Jesus asked, “Do you see anything?”
24 He looked up and said, “I see people; they look like trees walking around.”
25 Once more Jesus put his hands on the man’s eyes. Then his eyes were opened, his sight was restored, and he saw everything clearly.26 Jesus sent him home, saying, “Don’t even go into[a] the village.”
Mark 8:22-26
Day 43: Once More
One thing that will take the wind out of your sails is loosing hope. When you’ve been one to have dreams and then you stop dreaming because you’ve lost hope life becomes a burden. Today Jesus wants your healing to begin with you having the faith to dream again.
Don’t wait for some miracle to occur. Faith is the substance of things hoped for. Stepping out in faith is imagining something, some event that you can’t do on your own but you trust God to help it come to pass. And as you learn who God is through reading His word you come to know that you can trust Him. So you talk to Him every day about your dream and ask for His help. Your days become brighter because you start to see how He’s working things out. And as you are influenced by His presence you start to desire different things and have more faith stir in your heart.
Sometimes you may feel like giving up. Sometimes you may give up.
In Mark 8 we read the story of a blind man who came to Jesus for healing. He may have lost hope. But some of his friends brought him to where they knew he could get help. Be careful who you spend time with. Good friends renew our faith and help us get to where we can be helped.
Jesus brought him healing in stages. Jesus spit on his eyes and then asked the man if he saw anything. The man said he saw people looking like trees walking around. But once more Jesus put his hands on him and he saw everything clearly.
The journey to dream fulfillment is a process. Even Jesus allowed some miracles to occur in stages. You may have to dip in the Jordan river 7 times. But don’t loose faith in the one who is able to help you. Trust in Him once more. Have faith to know that God never fails.
I will givethanks to you, Lord, with all my heart; I will tell of all your wonderful deeds.
Psalm 9:1
I realized that I was waiting for some future great moment to celebrate. I wanted to achieve something great and then celebrate. But I realized that we must choose to celebrate regularly. Imagine if you were waiting till your 25th wedding anniversary to celebrate but your spouse became sick and passed away before anniversary 20. While you may choose to do special things when you can afford them you shouldn’t put off celebrating in ways you can afford.
Today I am grateful for the 88 years of life my mother has lived. She has loved so much and impacted so many that it would be a shame not to celebrate her 88th because I’m waiting for her 90th. Celebrate that you made it through today! Celebrate that God answered the prayer you prayed two days ago. Be grateful for the blessings that you have at this moment.
I’ve found that what you focus on grows. Just like when you all of a sudden start to see so many cars of the same model as yours once you have purchased it you will see many reasons to celebrate once you start looking for them. And you will be happier and healthier as a result.
Today I choose to count my blessings and celebrate them!
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32And what more shall I say? I do not have time to tell about Gideon, Barak, Samson and Jephthah, about David and Samuel and the prophets, 33who through faith conquered kingdoms, administered justice, and gained what was promised; who shut the mouths of lions, 34quenched the fury of the flames, and escaped the edge of the sword; whose weakness was turned to strength; and who became powerful in battle and routed foreign armies. 35Women received back their dead, raised to life again. There were others who were tortured, refusing to be released so that they might gain an even better resurrection. 36Some faced jeers and flogging, and even chains and imprisonment. 37They were put to death by stoning; e they were sawed in two; they were killed by the sword. They went about in sheepskins and goatskins, destitute, persecuted and mistreated— 38the world was not worthy of them. They wandered in deserts and mountains, living in caves and in holes in the ground.
39These were all commended for their faith, yet none of them received what had been promised, 40since God had planned something better for us so that only together with us would they be made perfect.
Hebrews 11:32-40
Do you realize that one day you will say something that will completely change someone else’s life? You therefore also have the potential not to as well. It’s up to you. You are needed! In Hebrews chapter 11 we read about some amazing heroes of the faith. They performed miracles. They endured the worst torture for the sake of the Gospel. But God’s plan means that only together with us would they be made perfect. In other words, there’s some stuff that we’ve got to do.
There are some heroes of the faith yet today. There are miracles still to come. There are lives that need changing. You are important!!! You have a purpose. I need you! Many people need what you have to offer. Let this reality renew your sense of purpose.
It’s easy to become discouraged. I was there this week. And God blessed me to find an encourager to help me finish making it through the day. I am not alone. Maybe you have needed emergency encouragement. There are lives to save. There are hearts that need healing. I need you and they need you.
God loves when his children care for one another.
7 Beloved, let us love one another: for love is of God; and every one that loveth is born of God, and knoweth God.
8 He that loveth not knoweth not God; for God is love.
I John 4:7-8
One evidence that we are born of God is that we love one another.
So today, I will give what I know I need–unconditional love. I’ll do it because of my daddy–He is love and loving is what we do! I’ll look for opportunities to share love. I need you. We need you. Give your love today and watch it spread like a wild fire.
Sometimes it can be sickening to see people doing wrong and getting away with it. In our world today more and more is made of results. We look for evidence based practices in education and business. But often we ignore moral failings if our bottom line is increased.
The Bible seems, however, to suggest that in the ultimate sense fearing the Lord will bless you with health. So one might be clever in strategy and create vast sums of money but there is a side effect to evil in the long run. We will not find the complete sense of health if we don’t respect the Lord and turn from evil doing.
While all have sinned we should not become comfortable putting aside morality so we can make a buck.
In Matthew 6 we read:
19 “Do not store up for yourselves treasures on earth, where moths and vermin destroy, and where thieves break in and steal.20 But store up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where moths and vermin do not destroy, and where thieves do not break in and steal.21 For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.
Each day I feel more and more a longing for heaven. So today, I am going to look for ways to store up treasure for heaven. And this pursuit will bring healing to my bones.
Have you ever wanted to believe in magic? Me too. But God is not magic!!! I have hurt myself listening to and buying into those that sell a “magical” religious experience. We are blessed to be loved by Our Heavenly Father. He has created us and given us this moment of life. He has given us the bible to help us learn about Him. We are able to study the bible and pray, asking for wisdom and the gift of His Holy Spirit to guide us into all truth. God invites us to come boldly to His Throne Of Grace. We are invited to pray. When we pray God can answer the prayer as He chooses. He isn’t forced to do what we want. We trust that based upon His character and His love for us that He will give us the best answer for our prayer.
I don’t want to read any more stories about people becoming wealthy by convincing the sincere to send them a substantial seed that ends up making those people rich. I am impressed by those who provide a valuable service or great innovation who then are rewarded with financial gain. But I am saddened by those who learn our emotional responses and then manipulate them to make themselves wealthy. Worse yet when it’s done in the name of God it makes me sick.
Today I refuse to be deceived. I will seek God for myself. I will pray. I will read His word. I will trust Him. I won’t run after magic!
The tongue has the power of life and death, and those who love it will eat its fruit.
Proverbs 18:21
Something so small as the tongue can make a huge impact. A little rudder can guide the big ship. And the little things we do daily and largely affect the big outcomes of our life. And if we want to be healthy we have to pay attention to them.
I like to have a peaceful life. I don’t like a lot of drama. But I realize that I have to pay attention to details that will affect the quality of singing I do and the quality of teaching I give. There’s nothing like having someone sign a song you’ve written to bring out the importance of details.
I have many gifted friends who play piano better than me. But when I have asked them to play a song I’ve written I realize that there are a lot of nuances–details that they may hear but not include in their performance or they may not notice. The little counter theme or the voicing in the left hand that I’ve chosen were because they made me feel a certain way and added to the message of the song.
Our health, both physical and spiritual depend on many little things. I would encourage you to become vigilant about the details of your health.
Today, I will pay attention to my daily habits and see how I can change them to improve my health.
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Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting; but a woman who fears the LORD is to be praised.
Proverbs 31:30
I love my mom! She is phenomenal!!! And as I continue on this 100 days of sharing on healing it is most appropriate today, on her 88th birthday, to acknowledge all that she has meant to me and all the love and healing she has brought my way.
She has been an encourager. Whether it was music or ministry or whatever dream or vision I was pursuing she always has been there to encourage me. She never gives up. And she deserves unlimited praise for all the times others would have lost hope and yet she continued to love and support. Thank you mom!
She has been an example of relentless service as she took care of my stepfather over the last two years of his battle with dementia. I was worried that she would wear out but she didn’t. AMAZING!!!
Always there helping with her grandchildren. Baking banana bread for friends and family. Cooking soup for those who might stop by. Making sure I had whatever I needed to survive what ever I might be going through. Truly, God has loved me so much through my mother that I should be ashamed to complain about life’s challenges.
Today, on her 88th birthday I want to say how much I love her, admire her, and hope to yet make her proud in the days God has given me to live upon this earth. Love you, mom!
Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things.
Philippians 4:8
Depression comes to visit me more often than I’d like. When it comes I can’t seem to find satisfaction in anything. I can exercise and feel a bit better. I can take supplements and feel a bit better. But I admit that I’m not able to get rid of it right away when it comes.
So what is the remedy. The bible encourages us to thing about uplifting things. I’m sure part of my feelings of depression are from what I’ve heard and read over the past few days. There is so much corruption. And then there is so much deception. It becomes difficult to even know who is telling the truth. This makes my heart so sad.
And I suppose at the core of my feeling is wanting to know that what I’m doing counts. I want to know that my presence matters. I want to know that I’m making a difference in the world, in someone else’s life.
So I’m sharing a word of encouragement to you that encourages me as well. Try this. Think of someone who needs your help. Then help them. Don’t you feel better? I do. I’m writing every day for 100 days because I want to encourage those in my sphere of influence. We can heal. We can feel better. We can do better. God will help us. We will help each other. And knowing that makes me feel better.
Today, I will help someone and I will feel better as I bless them.
22 They came to Bethsaida, and some people brought a blind man and begged Jesus to touch him.
Day 42: Celebrate!
Day 39: No Magic
Day 38: Mom
Day 36: Fighting Depression
